tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5762173204618404507.post6286839876022388287..comments2023-05-08T00:26:08.675-07:00Comments on The Virgin Single: how to be surrounded by beautyflamencokittyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07665114298186254835noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5762173204618404507.post-38351772326112124152011-03-30T13:29:55.288-07:002011-03-30T13:29:55.288-07:00Very true about the fireworks and "romance no...Very true about the fireworks and "romance novel!" Most of the time, I actually am open to a second date, given the pressure of first dates, off-days, all that stuff. But I now leave it to the guy to call me if he's interested in a 2nd date and I'll just say something like, "Call me if you want to hang out again!" In the past, I've pursued guys that I liked but, in hindsight, probably wouldn't have pursued a second date with me if I left it to them to call me. So I think men and women are guilty of judging after date one. And yes I will definitely check out your blog :-)flamencokittyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07665114298186254835noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5762173204618404507.post-65455449100605040322011-03-21T13:17:57.054-07:002011-03-21T13:17:57.054-07:00FLAMENCOKITTY!!
It's theycallhimjay, remember...FLAMENCOKITTY!!<br /><br />It's theycallhimjay, remember me? I changed my name to match my blog that you inspired me to start! http://workintheroom.blogspot.com/ Check it out sometime!! <br /><br />Anyways, back to your post...<br /><br />Yes chemistry is a difficult thing to handle. But don't let the fact that fireworks aren't going off in your head every time the guy walks into the room deter you from enjoying the company of a decent guy. This is real life, not a romance novel, sometimes you gave to give a relationship a chance to grow and develop. Just because you go out with a guy a few times doesn't mean you are committing to him. Maybe he is having an off day, maybe you are. Keep your dates diverse and see how he behaves in different environments. I just don't think it's fair to dismiss a guy after a first date just because there were no fireworks, first dates for guys are extremely stressful and frustrating. And to be honest, you are not going to get to know him very well until you both feel each other out (mentally not physically) and that can't happen instantly.workintheroomhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10526831226011976884noreply@blogger.com